No matter how much you miss a toxic person, please don’t ever contact them again.. please. Don’t. It’s not worth it, you will be sad again regardless of the many times they told u it wouldn’t be that way anymore. You deserve nothing but happiness and it is not them.. You don’t ever need to feel drained and exhausted over a person

If someone hates you, don’t hate them back.

it’s time to stop waiting to experience life. don’t wait to be at a perfect weight so you can go to the beach or wear a pretty dress or accept invitations to places. dont wait for summer to plan adventures for yourself, take pictures of your friends or glow up into your dream self. don’t wait for the perfect moment to say kind thoughts that pop into your head. don’t wait for a flash of inspiration to learn a new language, complete your assignment, or write the first excerpt of your book. don’t wait for the confidence to sign up for something great that thrills you yet terrifies you, especially when no one else seems to believe in you. don’t wait for the courage to confess your love to the person who makes your day glow the softest pink, or turn away from a person whose words cut you deeply and make you feel worthless at night. don’t wait for the weekend to do little things that make you feel happy. give permission for yourself to enjoy every day, and every moment, just as you are.

Try everything that seems interesting to you. Don’t worry too much, and when you do worry, at least make it fun while you do it. Surround yourself with as much love as you can, and try to put some good into the world while you’re here because life is short.

soo many things are honestly better left unsaid

Don’t chase people. Be you, do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay.

If you can’t see anything beautiful in yourself , get a better mirror.

No one can tell what goes on in between the person you were and the person you become. No one can chart that blue and lonely section of hell. There are no maps of the change. You just come out the other side. Or you don’t.”

Never let somebody waste your time, twice.

I know society tells you he’s perfect, he treats you right and he’s always there for you. I know your parents think he’s the one, he’s nice and you’re so happy when you’re with him. I know your friends all wish they had a guy like him, he listens and he’s such a romantic. I know your brain tells you to love him, he makes you feel safe and you make sense together. But what does your heart say? Because feelings can’t hide from your heart and even when you’re too scared to accept it, your heart knows. Listen up

If you want the rainbow, you got to put up with the rain.

You can take 5 hours, 5 days, or 5 years; it doesn’t matter. As long as you try your best when reaching your ultimate destination, time will be on your side, regardless of how much of it there is.

No one has ever become poor by giving.

stop romanticizing the idea of someone leaving you to fuck someone else, only to return because “ they realize how special you were.” true love is not someone who walks away from you. real love is someone who stays, someone who stays and respects your heart.

Hold on to whatever keeps you happy.

“Take a look at each person whom you currently hold in your life. Whether it be an unconditional love, a good laugh, or a life lesson to be taught; each individual provides something different.”

What’s yours will find you.

Dont be afraid to start over. Take a chance to build something better this time.

if you’re lying next to someone at night that doesn’t make you feel like a goddess, then you need to reevaluate what it is you want & need.

Whatever you wear, whenever you go, Yes means Tes and No means No.

“Dont ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday. Let it go.”

“You have to learn to get up from the table when love is no longer being served.”

“Do you want less regrets? Stop hurting the people you love.”

Revenge is unnecessary. It takes a lot of energy finding ways how to spite those who hurt you. Don’t cause yourself further heartache. Be your lovely self, no matter what.

Stop thinking you’re doing it all wrong. Your path doesn’t look like anybody else’s because it can’t, it shouldn’t, and it won’t.

Live your life at the fullest, do what makes you happy, have sex only if you want to and eat all the chicken nuggets