Girls, whatever you do, don’t settle for anything less than you deserve.

Life is tough my darling,
but so are you
- Stephanie Bennet

You don’t deserve a boy who’s only nice to you when you’re alone. You don’t deserve a boy who cancels your plans when he found something better to do. And you sure as hell don’t deserve someone who’s only interested in you when it occurs to him, who only pays attention to you when he feels like it and doesn’t give a shit about you otherwise.

You don’t deserve that. You deserve a fucking king. You deserve someone who cares about you all the time. You deserve someone who’s not afraid to kiss you in front of his friends. You deserve someone that no matter what, will always be loyal to you. Don’t you dare settle for anything less because you deserve so much more than that.

Always know the difference between what you’re getting and what you deserve
- Meg Brunson

I’m going through something similar to this right about now. There’s this guy, who I really like and at one point, he really liked me too. But then he broke it off and told me that nothing is going to happen between us. Then there’s this party. He hugs me. He hold my hand. He fucking kisses me in front of his friends, just like he used to when we were something real. And the day after he doesn’t talk to me at all, like last night never happened.

I know I don’t deserve this. I know that I don’t deserve someone who tells me that we will never happen, and then when he feels like it he treat me like I’m the only one that matters to him; and when he’s bored he just blows me off.

I know that it’s easier said than done to just let go off someone who means the world to you. But when he only plays by his rules and you let him, he will continue doing that. He won’t stop, because he knows that you will always be there no matter what, and he can keep hurting you over and over again.

Don’t promise her the stars if you can’t see them yourself
and never tell her you love her if love doesn’t mean the world to you
- Drake

So do yourself a favor this year. Instead of having the same new years resolution that you have every single year that you never intend to keep, have a promise that you will achieve. Like putting yourself first. Or as I said before, don’t fucking settle for anything less than you deserve. You’re a queen. You don’t need a man that doesn’t treat you like one.

Do not settle for people who do not appreciate you; who do not know how lucky they are.
Remember it is a privilege to be loved by you, or even touched by you, and the warmth of another body does not define your worth.
- Sade Andria Zabala