a quote that continuously appears on this site is that everything happens for a reason. its nice to believe isn't it? that the negatives in our lives are meant to be, that nothing is just at simple fault of a carless mistake. as much as id like to believe that all live's tragedies are meant to be I can't say I find this true. I cannot justify these misfortunes with the simple thought of looking back on them one day and somehow thinking they were necessary, because they're not. some things just happen because life sucks, some people leave because they don't know any better, and sometimes the timing Is just off. as much as id like to believe this is all one big elaborate plan I don't think thats entirely feasible. mistakes are made and people react in unpredictable ways. there is no set course to justify the terrors you're facing, they can simply be narrowed down to unfortunate coincidence.