I'm going to talk a little about self love here, so if you do not care don't read this

I think, that self-love, self-care and self-respect is what we should aim for in life, what should be our first goal. If you learn how to love yourself the way you are and not listen to people who disagree - you will love everyone else the same exact way: you will respect them and think it's beautiful how all of us are different. Most of the people on this planet, teenagers mostly, like to compare themselves to celebrities, Instagram models or even their classmates. In my honest honest opinion I think that's rather pathetic. We are all unique and we just waste that opportunity to be who we want to be just to "fit in" or "be accepted" . No. First of all we have to accept ourselves and love ourselves, care for ourselves. And how a great person once said:

Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from YOU.

- Ralph Marston