The primitive man loved fat and curvy women. The primitive man looked just boobs and butt in a woman. The primitive man was overprotective,he considered his wife a female and not a woman.
The world today is still full of cavemen.
First af all,if your man doesen't like your body because is too fat or too slim for him,,he dosen't want your happines,he wants satisfaction by your body.
Second thing,you're not a female. Your animal is a female. You have rights,you're smart,you're capable,you're unique ...you are a woman not a female.
Third thing,you are only your own. It's beautiful to know your man is protecting you but you have to know how you can defend yourself by your own. You are not addicted to anyone,my free angel. Don't let anybody else take your life in their hands,it is your power,not theirs.