instead of wanting to be loved by anyone, everyone, or by this one specific person, you should love yourself.
because, all you'll have at some point is your own self;
so you should first be in harmony with yourself, find a peace of mind;
accept yourself
love yourself
know your imperfections, your flaws and embrace it all.

because that's what makes you who you are
and you'd better love yourself because you'll be you for a long time