The first step to have a Aesthetic life is: Being creative.
Being creative is every importent to have a calm mindset. Doing every day something creatives is very restful. For instence: Draw, paint and write.
If your gonna paint or draw is it importent to draw or paint your feelings or something that you love (don't copy something for the internet). If your write, same you need to write your own feelings! If you have questions just put it in the comments. I'll check it everyday. Have fun!

Keep being creative honey๐Ÿ’ž