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Why I Liked This Comment - I love the way she explained the problem, the different situations that could be happening. She gave her opinion in a super nice way, and I think this comment it's super helpful, not only for the person who asked for help, also for all us who are reading it. It's a perspective that any of us wrote at first, and it's certainly super interesting. I love how she explained her thoughts and ideas,I love even the structure of the text... I think this comment definitely deserves a recognition

COMMENT OF THE WEEK

If you know that people are walking all over you and you still let them do it then first you need to respect yourself and filter these people out of your life. Only then will they start respecting you.
a) If you know that she's toxic to you then like you would do with any toxic thing, just discard it.
b) Also, she might've been your best friend at one point but when you started feeling toxicity in the relationship is when you should've confronted her. Now she's just taking advantage of your silence.
c) At some point one has to accept that the one we like doesn't like us back and that's the healthy thing to do. That also opens possibilities for new people to enter our lives or look at old people differently.
d) Have you ever thought that those two might actually really like each other?
There can be 2 scenarios here:
I) They like each other a lot and that's why they spend so much time together without you. This is also a possibility because they live close to each other. This can also be reflected in him dropping her home.
II) She likes him and is acting on it herself.
e) If the boy has broken your heart recently then it's highly likely that he's the one who's told her to keep you away.
f) If he matters so much to you then don't depend on your friend. Go and speak to him yourself. And clear the air one and for all. You have to take this chance if you want answers.
g) If she can betray you, her best friend for some guy's validation then imagine how little your friendship means to her. You can do so much better than her. Someone who actually values you and your friendship.
h) I'm sorry to hear that you feel your family is toxic but you don't need a guy in your life to feel happy about yourself.
i) Everyone is smart in some way. You just need to find the one thing you're good at and enjoy doing.
j) I'm sure the people who actually matter know how good a friend you are.

THE ONLY FAMILY WE GET TO DECIDE FOR OURSELVES ARE OUR FRIENDS. SO IT'S ALWAYS BEST TO CHOOSE WISELY BECAUSE THAT'S A DECISION WE MAKE.

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