1. ๐™๐™จ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™จ๐™ช๐™˜๐™˜๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ง๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ

I feel like sometimes, we see others doing things that we dreamed of, and when we realize that we aren't doing that thing, we may start to feel defeated or jealous. Instead, use that opportunity as motivation. Instead of thinking, "I wish I were them", think "Now I know it's completely possible for me to do it too".

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2. ๐™๐™š๐™ข๐™š๐™ข๐™—๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ฎ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™

There was a time when I felt like my dreams were pointless. When this happened, I journaled my emotions. I wrote down each of my goals and why I came up with them in the first place. I realized that my goals were very emotionally fulfilling for me, and suddenly, they didn't seem so pointless anymore.

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3. ๐™๐™š๐™ข๐™š๐™ข๐™—๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ ๐™จ ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™–๐™ก

I've been working on a novel for a little while now. One of the things that I've learned is that taking breaks is ABSOLUTELY BENEFICIAL. During those times when I took breaks, I almost always came back with a more fresh and intuitive mindset, more ideas and making more progress each time. But self care in general is beneficial just to relax and pull yourself together. I know it sounds clichรฉ but trust me, it works.

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4. ๐™๐™š๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ง๐™™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™›

Whenever you complete a goal or feel that you've made progress, reward yourself. The reward doesn't have to be extravagant. Sometimes, just being proud of yourself is the best reward.

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5. ๐™‘๐™ž๐™จ๐™ช๐™–๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฏ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™ช๐™ก๐™ฉ

The one thing that always keeps me rushing towards my goals is the end goal. I imagine what my life will be like when I finally accomplish my goals and fulfill my dreams. Imagine how proud you'll make yourself. You'll finally be able to say, "I did that".

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6. ๐™๐™š๐™ข๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™›๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ

In order to be confident in your goals, you have to at least the slightest bit of confidence in yourself. If you believe in yourself, you'll believe that anything is possible. This also means that just because someone else has the same goals as you or vise versa, doesn't mean that you're not allow to pursue that same goal. Overall, don't let others dull your spark.

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7. ๐˜พ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™– ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ

Creating a plan for your goals is very beneficial. By creating a plan, you allow yourself to see what steps you will need to take and what steps you will WANT to take in order to accomplish your goals. It is also a good reminder of where your headed if you keep going.

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8. ๐˜ฟ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ก๐™™ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ง๐™š๐™™ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ง๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ฉ

Ok, so maybe not that extravagant, but getting dressed as if you're going out. That's not to say that you shouldn't wear comfy sweats while working, but the goal is to get yourself ready for the day so that you feel more productive. Personally, when I get myself ready as if I'm going out, I feel more ready to take on the day.

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9. ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช'๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™–๐™—๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™œ๐™ค๐™–๐™ก๐™จ

This one is huge. Many of us may want to do something because we know someone that did that specific thing. If it's not something you've dreamed of doing or imagined yourself doing, then don't pursue it just because you see others doing it, or because you think it'll make you look cool or become popular. If the goals isn't actually yours, you won't have as much fun pursuing it, and it will feel constricting.

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10. ๐™๐™š๐™ข๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™™ "๐™›๐™–๐™ž๐™ก๐™ช๐™ง๐™š" ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ซ๐™ค๐™˜๐™–๐™—๐™ช๐™ก๐™–๐™ง๐™ฎ

Achieving your goals isn't a linear process. It it was, everyone would be successful. Instead of seeing failures, look for opportunities of growth and develop new ways to think. Develop a new perspective and a fresh set of eyes towards your goals.

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11. ๐™Ž๐™ช๐™ง๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™› ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ง๐™œ๐™ฎ

Listen to empowering music and make sure your friends aren't toxic. If you have toxic family members, keep your distance from them as much as possible. Negative energy will not only make you feel defeated, but will hinder your motivation. You'll feel so compelled to accomplish your dreams (due to negative energy), that you'll use your goals as a way to prove your worth and escape your negative energy. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it will make it more difficult for you too handle roadblocks during your journey.

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12. ๐˜ฟ๐™ค๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š ๐™–๐™›๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š ๐™™๐™ž๐™›๐™›๐™š๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ

If you have goal that seems farfetched, run with it. That goal was planted into you heart for a reason. If you weren't meant to pursue that goal, chances are, you probably wouldn't have thought of it in the first place.

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13. ๐™’๐™ค๐™ง๐™  ๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™”๐™Š๐™๐™ ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฃ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™˜๐™š

This one is probably one of the most important. Don't use the speed of other's progress to measure your own. What's important is that you keep doing what you have to do in order to get to where you wanna be. Once you keep working, you'll het there. We all have our time to shine if we allow ourselves to.

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๐™ƒ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™Ÿ๐™ค๐™ฎ๐™š๐™™! ๐™ˆ๐™ฎ ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ: