This how to stop giving a f*dge, what people think and to start giving a f*dge about what matters to you. Not giving a f*dge doesn't mean to be indifferent. It means being comfartable with being different.

๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘ ๐Ÿฃ: ''realize''

Realize everyone is insecure even the seemingly most confident. Realize it's useless to care about what other people think, because most of the time people are too self consious and are more worried about themselves to even notice you. Realize you will never be satisfied if you're constantly chasing after other people's approval. Realize everyone judges, everyone assumes, including you. So don't take anything too personally. Realize you can't and you will never please everyone. And that's okay!

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๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘ ๐Ÿค: ''confidence''

The best way to gain confidence is to keep putting yourself out there. Keep emberricing yourself. Stop second-guessing yourself and practice more of wearing what you want and saying what you want. Be bold, never reguler and sometimes italics. Loosen up, turn your favourite playlist on and let go. And the next time you have a favourite song that no one else likes just shake it of and blast out to it anyways.

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๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘ 3: ''passion''

When's the last time you're so focused on something. So deeple obsessed and excited that the thoughts and opinions of other people suddenly became irrelevent.
When you build good habbits that lead to a good lifestyle and you do something you love. You can take comfort in knowing you can be proud of yourself, because when you know your identity it's kind of hard to care what other people think and you may not know that your superpower is that no one else is you.

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