Some people would call me a perfectionist but I don’t think I am. While I do strive for “perfection”, I really just want to do my best. I always want to make all the right decisions.

I want to pick the right major.
I want to go to the right school.
I want to be surrounded by the right people and have good friends.
I want to make the right choice the first time.

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But let's be honest, this kind approach to life is completely unrealistic. The older I get the more I try to let go of this kind of approach to life.

Fear of Failure

When it comes to trying new things, I normally walk in confident, knowing I can accomplish or master the activity OR I just don’t try it.

What stopped me from trying?
My fear of failure.
My fear of being 2nd place.
My fear of not being the best at something the first time I try it.

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If you can relate to this I want to let you know that you NEED to change, WE need to change.

This kind of view on life is terrible because you will miss out on so many things simply because you never tried it. You miss 100% of the shots you never take.

It is okay to try something and then realize it's not for you.
It is okay to make mistakes.
It is okay to not be the best.

Everything you have been through, good and bad have made you the person you are today.

"All of your experiences,
the highs and the lows,
your achievements and disappointments,
your strengths and your weaknesses,
the healing and heart ache,
your friends and foes,
the work you've done in plain sight,
and the long nights you've worker overtime,
have created in the beautiful work of art you are today,
and I know the Lord far from done with his masterpiece."
~Eniola Babington

You live and you learn.

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Crazy how I planned on posting an article on fear and

posted an article on fear today too. LOL i guess great minds think a like.
You guys should go check out here article.