Day 21: What three lessons do you want your children to learn from you

Honestly, this is kinda hard to think of. Because even I, am still in the process of growing and still learning a lot of things. Let alone think about the three lessons that I want my children to learn from me. These 3 lessons that listed below doesn't mean that I'm already an expert in those things, like I said, I'm still learning and having the process too until it becomes a part of my life.

1. never give up on something that you really passionate about

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I always wanted to go on study abroad, however, my grades weren't that special during my school year so i kinda worried that i won't get accepted to my dream university. But here I am, on my third year already and studying abroad, with a one year of scholarship. so i'm telling you kids, nothing is impossible if you work on it. Doesn't mean that you can just do nothing to improve your grades, i worked my ass off to be in this condition right now, and let me tell you that it's worth it. I'm trying to say that even if you're not the smartest kid in your class or your school, doesn't mean that you can't achieve your dreams. As long as you believe in yourself, there's nothing that you can't do.

2. be patient

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everything takes time. it's gonna take a while and even a really long time to be in your dream life. But once it's there, all of your hard work is gonna pay off and you're gonna be living your dream life. can you imagine how relieve and happy would you feel when you've waited for so long to be in that situation and you finally achieve it? so my advice is try to be patient, you can't get what you want within one day, you need to work on it everyday until you get there. Don't push yourself too hard, just go with the flow and you'll get there.

3. love yourself

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now i know this is cliche and obviously needed in your life. but believe me, it's like the hardest thing to do, at least for me. You can get anything you want in this world but if you don't love yourself, or take care of it, or make peace with it, you won't feel happiness. I can't say that I'm totally loving myself now because I have my ups and downs, sometimes when I'm in a good mood, I would love myself so much that I take care of it the whole day, but I always have my downs where I don't really take care of it and just feed junkfood to my body and stuffs. I'm still learning on how to love myself, not judging myself too often etc. So let's get to know ourselves better and make peace with them.

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