Do not go back to those who break you. They will not heal you, they will only break you further and you deserve better than that.

It’s always dangerous when everybody’s sleeping and I’ve been thinking

I still believe in magic.
And soulmates.
And the possibility that this world is not as cruel as it seems.

Sometimes you can’t let go of what’s making you sad, because it was the only thing that made you happy.

Have you considered that if you don’t make waves, nobody including yourself will know that you are alive?”

“Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you, the thing you think you can’t survive…it’s the thing that makes you better than you used to be.”

The biggest mistake I made in my life is letting people stay far longer than they deserve. Sometimes you give your all and even that’s not enough. And then you learn that when it’s not meant to be it will never be.

Please, keep looking. Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself. Keep looking. Explore yourself before you explore another. Know your worth, know yourself. Only then will you know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own.

I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you. You have a fire inside of you — I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out. I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion inside of you

Being strong doesn’t mean hiding your pain. It doesn’t mean forgoing help when you’re struggling. It doesn’t mean refusing to show sadness and vulnerability. And it doesn’t mean carrying the burdens of life all by yourself. Anything that prevents your healing and stifles your growth does not correspond with strength. Being strong means refusing to tolerate people and things that wound your soul. It means practicing self-care when you’re hurting. It means honoring your feelings by actually allowing yourself to feel and express them. It means treating yourself with compassion and kindness, even when you feel like you don’t deserve any. It means doing what makes you happy and being with people who make you feel good. It means asking for help when the weight of the world has become too much. It means giving yourself permission to get your needs met by setting boundaries. It means to take care of yourself.

But with every falling apart there is a coming together.

I hope your life is full of "I can't believe I did this" instead of "I should've done it

You know what you deserve? You deserve so much better. So many things have happened to you whether it's a bad break up, family issues, friends, whatever it is... you pulled through. You have made it this far and i'm proud of you. You truly deserve the world and since no one can give you that now, find someone that will, apologize, forgive but don't forget, find new friends. Ones that make plans with you and free their time to give you attention. You deserve all good things and don't for a second think you're not worth it because you remind me of the sun, you hide away but always come back even more beautiful than before.