I dont know how it happened. But somewhere along the way I lost who I am. I lost the young cheerful girl that was ready for anything. Caught up in the business of the world I hadn't had a chance to stop and think about who I am. We all mature in time but this does not mean that we have to lose our happiness.

Trying to please others had not helped me in this journey and only made me lose myself more . Despite efforts to keep others happy I had realised that others don't have to be content with who you are. And this is what inevitably helps us become who we want to be and be truly happy with ourselves.

Coming up with simple steps to help you find who you are again will make your journey much easier and help you realise what is important to you in life.

1- โ™ฅ๐‘…๐‘’๐’ถ๐“๐’พ๐“ˆ๐‘’ ๐“Ž๐‘œ๐“Š ๐’ถ๐“‡๐‘’ ๐’ถ๐“๐‘œ๐“ƒ๐‘’ ๐’พ๐“ƒ ๐“‰๐’ฝ๐’พ๐“ˆ ๐’ฟ๐‘œ๐“Š๐“‡๐“ƒ๐‘’๐“Ž ๐‘œ๐’ป ๐’ป๐’พ๐“ƒ๐’น๐’พ๐“ƒ๐‘” ๐“Ž๐‘œ๐“Š๐“‡๐“ˆ๐‘’๐“๐’ป โ™ฅ .This does not mean you need to isolate yourselves from others. People around you may inspire you and help you better yourself. However only you can change your life as you know yourself better than anyone.

2- โ™ฅ ๐’œ๐“…๐“…๐“‡๐‘’๐’ธ๐’พ๐’ถ๐“‰๐‘’ ๐“‰๐’ฝ๐’ถ๐“‰ ๐“Ž๐‘œ๐“Š ๐“ƒ๐‘’๐‘’๐’น ๐“‰๐’พ๐“‚๐‘’ โ™ฅ . Although it is easy to become impatient whilst waiting for yourself to improve, it is important to understand that everything great takes time and you are a masterpiece that deserves its wait.

3- โ™ฅ ๐’ฆ๐“ƒ๐‘œ๐“Œ ๐“Ž๐‘œ๐“Š๐“‡ ๐“ˆ๐‘’๐“๐’ป ๐“Œ๐‘œ๐“‡๐“‰๐’ฝ.โ™ฅ Just because you are not at your best do not belittle yourself and put down yourself. Knowing your worth is so important in your progress as it shapes your character to become someone who believes in themselves. This will be a trait that you will carry with yourself forever.