Hey yall, I know it been a while, but I wanted to update yall about how been since my break up. College has been hectic, and finals are approaching fast, which is why I havent posted in so long.

Its actually been almost 7 months since the break up, and i feel so great. I don't think about my ex often now, because I'm too busy with school, my friends, and family.
I've seen him a couple of times, and I've cried plenty, but I'm finally healing.

These are the few of many things I've learned since May.

1. One of the biggest things I learned was that I am finally okay with spending time alone, and enjoying every minute of it. I eat dinner alone a lot, and spend time in my room, while discovering new shows, doing homework, and just relaxing.

2. I discovered that listening to music makes me feel better when I am down. I usually listen to more upbeat music, and it puts a huge smile on my face.

3. Something small that makes me very happy is watching comedians, such as John Mulaney or Trevor Noah.

4. I have met so many great people, that give me a reason to smile and have helped me learn to be okay by myself, and be there for me when I would cry myself to sleep.

5. I discovered new shows I loved, that would let me forget all about my heartbreak for a little bit, such as The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina, Switched at Birth, 100% Hotter, and The Crown.

6. Making a list of things I love about myself, that didn't depend on what my ex thought of me.

These are only a few things, but I hope these things could help other people.

Love yourself, Always.