Ok... so haven't you notice how every single song, movie, poem or book revolves around the idea that the person that leaves the other is the bad one, the mean one, the one that breaks the heart of the other one?
SO... LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON FOR BREAKING UP W/ SOMEONE.
I'm saying this bc, I recently broke up with my boyfriend, everyone except one or two people told me that I was mean, and selfish. Well... let me tell you something if you are in a relationship just bc you feel like a) you won't find someone that likes you other that the person that you are currently w/
b) bc you feel like if you leave them they are going to hate you
c) bc you feel sorry for them
THEN JUST LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP.
In my opinion in a relationship you have to be happier than you are when you are alone, you have to feel like that person complements you, if you dont... then why the hell are you dating someone.
Okay?
So as I've said before I was dating this guy, for the first few months I honestly think I loved him, and if I didn't it sure did seem like love. But in the last months of our relationship, I feel like he dint trust me, and I felt like it was my obligation to call him I just called him bc I know that if I didn't he would be mad at me. The thing is that he were fighting 24/7 for the same bullshit over and over again, I mean I wasn't happy and honestly I was missing the days were I would just be by myself doing whatever the fuck I wanted.
This guy was too much for me, I don't mean it in a sense that he was too much like he was out of my league, I mean it like he was way too intense, he wanted too much... I wasn't neither am ready for that type of relationship.
So after months of thinking and shit I decided to break up, obvs I spoke w/ him a few times about the things that bothered me in the relationship, but he didn't change. So ... I just decided it was the best for both of us, I honestly felt like SHIT. And no one understood me.
So what I mean is that don't be with someone that doesn't makes you happy.
IS OK TO BE SELFISH SOMETIMES!!!!!!