1) invite the girl or boy to hangout with a group of friends you know all to well

2) has to be a friend you know for several years and this way you already know who they are because of the friend bond

3) and make sure only one person knows its a date so technically speaking the person who is making up this secret date

4) go somewhere that gets you pumped up like do an activity these are my favorite

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5) try to spend time together but don't be so obvious

6) finally two to four days text him or her that was a date give it some time between the secret date and coming clean because you don't want to like scare him or her and like accidentally ruin the end of the date and the friendship