Hi guys! I'm back!
So today I will talk more about crushes and how difficult they can be at times. But everything I have written below is simply my experience so everything gets more entertaining because, let's face it, no one really considers themselves a heartbreaker!

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Let's start with the basic question:

What's a crush?

According to 'urban dictionary', it is a burning desire to be with someone who you find very attractive and extremely special. Also, it may grow into true love or your feelings might wear away so don't jump into conclusions and mistake a silly crush for love. A crush might make you get butterflies in your stomach, shy, and blushful. Your crush can also cause you to do silly things like stalking him,figuring out his/her sceduled classes, looking at his/her myspace a million times a day (even reading all his/her comments), collecting every piece of information you can on him/her, and other obsessive things.


Why do we have crushes on different people?

It's normal. It would be abnormal if you wouldn't find anyone attractive on this planet. It's a nice feeling, but it gets so much better when that person you like is interested in you, too.

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How can I get my crush to notice me?

Technically, you can't force someone to like you the way you like them - I have learned that on my own skin years ago. But there are ways to get closer to that person, to find out if he/she's into the same stuff you like, and finally get to the straight idea - see if you can be a match.

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Now, here's a list of things to do to get your crush to notice you and, eventually, pay more attention to how amazing you are and could be if you were together! ⇟

  • be yourself

I'm sorry, but if you're not planning on being your self, he/she might fall for the wrong persona and it would turn difficult for you to keep up with the fake you. Plus, it's wrong from all points of view.

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  • be confident

You've no idea how much this means, but being confident (or even faking it 'til you make it) gives it such a major change in any kinds of relationships. Everytime I liked someone, I used to be confident and laugh when I made mistakes or simply said something, even though some made me die of embarrassment on the inside. It was worth it, trust me. You attract so many people when you're confident!

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  • eye contact

Eyes transmit so much that sometimes two don't even need conversation anymore. It's in the power of your eyes to transmit a good/bad vibe. No wonder they all say that eyes are the mirror to one's soul.

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  • be friendly and caring

If you're friendly, that person you like will have the tendency to stay closer to you and approach you more often. In the end, it's all about being a good person. Because good attracts optimism and optimism attracts people! :)

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  • take care of yourself

No, I don't mean that you have to look a certain way for someone, but taking good care of your own self is a major bonus. Plus, dressing up nicely and looking your very best (with or without makeup) will make you feel so much more confident.

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  • don't focus on your body

Yes, I feel like we all have body-image issues, no matter how big or small they are. We have to confront daily with all those ''perfect'' bodies on social medias and magazines.
But I promise you that your body should be loved the way it is, because it's beautiful the way it is. And you shouldn't focus on your body when it comes to a crush, thinking 'Why would she be interested in me with this body of mine?, 'I don't look good enough for him'. NO! You look amazing, you slay and you're gonna get that boy/girl! Just you wait. And if he/she doesn't like you for you, honey, it's their loss!

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  • hang out

You can't get to know your crush if you don't talk to him and approach him often. Do your best, take initiative and remember to be kind and friendly at all times!

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  • flirt

A little touch on the arm, a pat on the shoulder when you laugh at his/her joke - it's flirting and it's cute. But don't do it too often or it might get annoying.

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That's all for now. I hope it helped some of you out! :)
Thanks for reading! Love you all!