So my definition of love is when you can have as a best friend a lover at the same time. Its like when you first saw them there's an automatic connections. you may not may not realize it at first but the more you are around them the more you can actually feel a bond that may last a lifetime. no matter how many times you both get into arguments wit one another you know at the end of the day that conflict you two had may be over and you or that person does not hold a gurage against each other. you can be yourself around them and not some fake person you may had created. you are you true self. Love is powerful.