Let go of your need to control the uncontrollable, which is what everyone else says, does, thinks and everything that happens. Let it go. Life is much more interesting when you're spontaneous and say yes to new places or opportunities. There's nothing fun about having a negative perception on life and people in it. It's draining your energy. There are better and more important things to focus on.

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I've experienced it in my own life, I've learned the more attention I give to what I don't want, in this case control the uncontrollable, the more I feel awful. Then I decided I need to take back my control of the only thing I can control, which is the only thing that matters anyway: how I feel.

I’ve learned that if you stay positive and focus on the things that you love and cheerish, good things will come to you. I know this sounds crazy but it’s true because I used to be so lost but I finally decided that I needed to stay away from the negative. Because I have done this I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and that life is slowly starting to get better. I feel like I’ve finally found that spark that should always glimmer in your eye.

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So anytime it feels like I am focusing on something that I can't control, I say to myself "thats a nice desire, but it's not in your control, so let it go". Then I think about lightness and infinite possibilities.

When you feel good you attract good feeling experiences to you, good feeling people, you attract the money, soulmates, the fun exciting events, you attract everything you desire when you feel good.

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Doing things you’ve always wanted to do but were scared of doing can help a lot. I’ve always wanted to dye my hair red but I was scared to and finally I did it and it was honestly one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Everyone is scared of something but normally it's the stupid little things in life. Start small but try everything, have lots of good and bad experiences. Smell all the flowers, not just the roses. Give everybody a chance. Positive anything is better than negative nothing.

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The majority of my happiest moments were all linked to a spontaneous decision. I've always believed I’m the kind of person who craves passion. If you're like me, you don't want to live your life based on the same old routine, restriction and repetitivness.

I hope this article will somehow pick you up. We should treasure every moment and make every day count–starting from today.

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  • ✰ Hop more fences, be more passionate, skin your knees, get in trouble, not care so much about the rules. Own your state of mind and turn it into something incredible.
  • ✰ Be okay and happy with who you are now, but also push yourself to do better, and become your ideal self.
  • ✰ Read about subjects that interest you. Talk about subjects you're interested in. Find people who have similar interests to you.
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  • ✰ You don’t have to be the same person you used to be. You evolve & your boundaries change. Only fools and dead men don't change their minds.
  • ✰ You do not need to fight or struggle with life, this just wastes your energy, instead you must learn to dance gracefully. You can't have a rainbow without a little rain.
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  • ✰ Sometimes you can be too busy searching in the distance, to notice that what you are looking for, is right next to you. Life gets much sweeter when you become grateful instead of greedy. So appreciate the little things in life. Light drizzle of rain hitting your window or a pattern in the froth of your coffee.
  • ✰ The more you cling to what was, the more you suffocate the life out of present moment. When you surrender & let go of the past, you allow yourself to be fully alive in the moment. You are free to live every second of your life in the present.
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  • ✰ Don't let the mistakes of yesterday get in the way of the opportunities that are being offered by the universe right now. At the end of the day, we end up regretting the chances we didn’t take and those opportunities we were too scared to go for.
  • ✰ Step out of your comfort zone, you never know what can happen if you take a chance. Doubt will keep you from even trying to expand your life.
  • ✰ Don't allow others to control your emotions. You can't control or worry too much about anyones perspective other than your own. Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion even if you do not agree with it.
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  • ✰ Find an unconditional way of feeling good. We need to learn to be unconditional. No matter what, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born. We should be happy in all conditions.

Declare to the universe you are willing to let go of control. As you surrender, your relaxed energy rapidly attracts your desires. Trust the process and let the universe deliver magic & synchronicity in divine timing.

Stay strong, I love you.
Paulina.