Hi guys,

I've been wanting to write a new article for a while now, but I never really had a good idea. Most of my ideas were so cliché that I couldn't put them in the correct words. But with some good music and a lot of inspiration I got at the point where I wrote something.. Hope you like it!

❝ 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐝. ❞
- Jordan Sarah weatherhead

We all want to be nice. We all want people to think we are nice. It's the best thing in the world, right, someone calling you nice? Perhaps it's even better than being called pretty, important or cute. It's something special. It's hard to be nice and soft in a world that's rough. Life throws so much sh*t at you and you still have the courage to be nice.

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➳ 𝓸𝓱, 𝓱𝓸𝔀?

You might see yourself as a person that is just not nice. Maybe even mean. But is that true? In my opinion, there is a piece of niceness in all of us. Whatever you think, are, love, feel, like, all of us can be kind. Why, let me explain :

it was this day, I think almost 2/3 months ago. I was sitting at a table with people I didn't really talk to. I had the feeling they didn't like me and I was trying my best to stay strong. I didn't want to break down in front of all these people. So at another table there was another girl. I knew her, I talked to her a couple times. And she gave me this smile. And it has stood by me all this time that she smiled at me like that. She gave me this little sparkle of hope when I was feeling so down.

You see, she wasn't exactly the typical nice girl. But that action, it change my perspective. And even today, after all these months, I still remember. I can even stil think of what feeling it gave me.

➳ 𝓼𝓸..?

So how to be genuinely nice, you may ask. Just smile and compliment. Smile at the girl that looks like her world is falling apart. Give the insecure guy a compliment.
And perhaps, if you are lucky, you'll get to see a glimpse of their smiles too. I hope you do.

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I hope you liked me sharing this kind of personal story. Don't forget to smile today ;) and have a nice day!

I'm sorry if there were any mistakes in this article, English is not my native language.

Thanks for reading ♥

X Vera

side note : in my story I only talked about smiling at people to be nice, but of course giving compliments is a great way of being nice too. This just stood by me after all this time and I wanted to share a more oiginal story instead of all the typical. I don't mean that complimenting is a less important way of expressing kindness ♥

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