Hi everyone!!

This is part 2 of my tips, so if you want read part 1, it's is below.


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The old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach isn't just an old saying for no reason- it's totally true! I always bake a little treat for a guy when I'm trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. When my husband and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. He just loved it!


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When a guy's trying to determine if you're girlfriend material, he will test you a little bit. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more. In my experience, if any guy ever got the impression that I'd try to tie him down, he'd be gone lightning fast. So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare time.


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When I'm trying to get a guy, I play a little hard to get. I don't call him all the time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother. I want him to think that I'm too busy out there having a great time to bother with him, and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he's interested in sharing any time with me! Let him do the pursuing, and he'll be much more interested in you.


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Okay, this seems a little creepy at first, but just hear me out. Whenever I want to impress or charm someone (not just guys, but anyone), I do a little physical mirroring. What this means is taking whatever physical action that person does, waiting about five seconds, and then copying the motion. For instance, if your guy rests his elbow on the table, wait five seconds, and then put your elbow on the table. Sounds silly, but it works! It creates a connection between me and the guy that he just can't explain.


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Staring deeply into someone's eyes quickly ramps up the intensity of the connection between two people. So, if I'm trying to get a guy to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into his eyes while we're talking. Now, don't look too long, or you'll appear to be a stalker... but you definitely want extended eye contact. Remember the scenes in Twilight where all the sexual tension developed between Edward and Bella just based on eye contact? That's what I'm talking about.


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Guys want someone that is confident and someone that is secure in themselves. Even if you aren't confident, don't worry, there are tons of ways to build it. Start small and just go from there. I know not appearing desperate is hard, but if you appear to have it all together and even play hard to guy? Your crush will like you even more!


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Guys love someone they can trust. I learned the hard way that telling my girlfriends every thing about a new guy in my life wasn't the best idea. Word always gets back to the guy that I've talked about what he told me or told details about our time together, and he always bolts. So, discretion is the best policy. Don't tell your girls every little bit of your private conversations, and your guy will trust and respect you much more.


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When I am trying to attract a guy, I don't want to be an open book to him. I've found that guys like a little mystery... they keep coming back for more if you leave more to find out. Think of your information, history, interests, etc. like a treasure hunt... give your guy little clues, but don't let him find the treasure right away. He'll want to keep calling and asking you out just to learn more about you!


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Guys love it when a girl takes an interest in what he likes to do. Even if you don't necessarily like what he is into (like video games or sports!), just give it a try -- that way you can have some common ground. Guys, that also means that you'll have to take an interest in your girl's interests too! A relationship is a two way street.


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My last tip has to do with physical intimacy, or making out, heavy petting , or sex. If you truly want to make a guy fall in love with you, you've got to hold out on stuff like this for as long as you can. Most guys I dated and are friends with just go after a girl for the thrill of the chase at first. It takes time for them to realize that they actually care about the girl. So, hold off on physical intimacy to give your relationship a chance to develop first. Steve Harvey has written a hilarious book that talks about this exact idea!

There you have it... my top twenty tips (Part 1 and Part 2) for getting a guy to fall madly in love with you. Hopefully, with this beautiful weather we're having, we can get out of the house, get flirting, and meet some great guys!