Hi everyone!

Spring has sprung, and love is in the air -- so are some fantastic tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! Whenever the weather starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we had a special someone to spend time with. Sometimes, it can be tricky to find - and get! - that great guy you've been wishing for. So, here are my top 20 tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! It's all about confidence, being yourself and really putting yourself out there!

1. BE YOURSELF

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All of my tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you surround being yourself. If you're fake, it doesn't matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won't really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me. After all, you would hate to fall in love with a guy that isn't being himself right?

2. OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE

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Whenever I'm trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn't mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume. I do this for myself, so I can be confident in who I am.

3. LISTEN

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Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time. If he is attune to women, he will ask you questions too and it'll develop into a nice little back and forth conversation!

4. LAUGH A LOT

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Having a sense of humor is really important when you are trying to attract a guy. Laughing at his jokes and even knowing how to take a joke can really make a guy feel like he knows a girl instantly! If you've got a crush, laugh it up a little with him and see how he responds!

5. HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE

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In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a "glass half full" person when I'm trying to catch a hot guy. People always tend to look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I've got a smile on my face! So flash those pearly whites!

6. BE SWEET

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Sometimes, I can be catty... all girls can be. When I'm with my girlfriends, we'll gossip or trash some other girl for being rude or trashy, but that's not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I've learned that this kind of behavior doesn't attract guys. Boys are drawn to girls who are sweet and don't gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to yourself around your new guy. The occasional catty comment is okay, but keep it to a minimum!

7. FLIRT

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Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I'm telling you - it works. Guys just love to be showered with attention and treated like a king. So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes. Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they're tried and true because they actually work!

8. BE DIFFERENT

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Trying to be unique and different is a way I've always tried to interest guys. I don't want him to think that I'm just like all the other girls out there... instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don't talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you're worldy!

9. BE WITTY

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Everyone has a bit of charisma to them and a witty side, why not show that? I know it can be difficult sometimes, if you are around your crush, but don't get too tongue-tied and just go for it! Remember when I said that a guy likes a girl with a sense of humor? Show that side of yourself to him and be confident in who you are!

10. INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT

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Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. So, when I'm trying to attract a guy's attention, I will look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I'll touch his hand while I'm explaining something.

That's the end.
I hope you like it!!
When we hit the 100 hearts, I post a part 2!! <3