universe is an interpretation of ones own little world; Defined by different perceptions and opportunities, for some universe might be a place with stars and galaxies while for others it might be undefined entity of sciences. Some might name it collective worlds.In reality universe is us. How could we define someone around us if, we ourselves are unaware about us?; We look around us, but we forget our own self. The bloodstream becomes polluted when we get affected by exotoxins, in your case toxics are those who tries to change you, why do you look for approval from others? when you, yourself is another person to the one who is judging you.