Hello and welcome to another article! Sometimes we really want something and we work for it but somehow things don't work out the way we wanted it. In this article I have 5 questions you can ask yourself if things aren't going as planned and maybe you can solve the problem!


1. Am I working hard enough?

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It might be hard to admit but sometimes we're not working hard enough to achieve what we want. It's not because you don't want it, it's just because sometimes you might get lazy or even just tired of working for it. But remember in the end it will be worth it, so work hard!

2. Do I really know what I'm doing?

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Before you start working for something you want you have to know exactly what you're doing. You won't get anywhere if you're not even slightly sure of what you're doing and what you need to do in order to get to what you want. Do research, ask for advice, make sure you know what you have to do and how.

3. Am I being negative?

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When you think negative things like I can't do it, This is too hard, I'm not enough you're blocking the good things that you want to happen. You have to be positive and believe that you can and you will and things will work out. But if you think negative, positive things will never come.

4. Am I doing all I can?

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If you really want something, you do anything you can to achieve it. Sometimes we don't realize but there is always something more we can do. If things are not working out, maybe you're not doing everything you can. Think about it. There must be something more you can do. Remember, nothing is impossible.

5. Is this really what I want?

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This is probably the most important question. Because if you're working for something that you want to achieve, it must be something you really want and like. Why would you do it if it wasn't what you really want? So, make sure that is exactly what you want and not something other people want for you, for example, if you're studying a certain subject or job just because your parents want you to. Do something you like and that YOU want.

I hope you liked this article and found these questions helpful! If you're struggling to get to something you want, these might help you.
Thank you for reading.

~ mags (@loveinbrooklyn)


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