First, I'd like to thank you for the good feedback I had on my last post :

This post is about a totally different subject and is probably the first one of a series named "Let's talk about" because I have A LOT to talk about with you guys,

Friendship is the relation between two people or more, the emotions or the conduct of friends; the state of being friends.

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A healthy friendship is based on trust, love and support from both sides of that relationship and that is something people seem to forget about.
But today we talk about the other kind. The toxic one.
Let’s start.

There’s a difference between annoying, somehow frustrating friends and controlling people who are actually threatening your life and your improvements. So the first thing to do is to be able to discern them so that you can cut them out of your life. Because, believe me, you deserve better.

They try to put you down.

These people will always try to make your choices and decisions look stupid, lower your self-esteem and put themselves first.

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They take without giving.

They’d suck your blood out of your veins if it was benefic to them.

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They're always right ( even if they’re wrong).

They’re gonna find a way to be right they’ll also never admit they’ve meesed up.

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They are not honest.

They’d lie to you about the most important things or just about what they ate yesterday.

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They play victims

They’ll make you responsible of their failures or make you feel guilty for enjoying the good sides of your life just because they’re unable to do so. They’re also more likely to avoid responsibility making everyone else responsible of every bad decision they make.

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I'm sorry to say it, but if someone around you has this kind of behavior towards you. CUT THEM LOOSE !!!
They're not gonna change because they'll suddenly care about you.

Thank you for reading. Peace