I don’t feel like being sentimental now but I should write this at some point so, I will try to make it clear and simple. There are many things I have learned the hard way, but if I have to choose one, I think one of the most important things I have learned is that at the end, we are all alone.

I don’t mean to be depressing or anything, but I think this is reality. As I said in one of my previous posts, I spend most of my school years alone so I learnt a lot about enjoying the time by myself. Sadly, I should have learned it in a more positive way, instead of blaming myself all the time, but at least I know it now.

We all live in our own world, and sometimes we forget that others do too. Sometimes it is hard to believe that others experience the same feelings we do, but it is curious that the only feelings hard to believe are the bad ones: loneliness, pain, sorrow...we are all selfish deep inside. We only have consciousness of ourselves. And I think it is important to be conscious about it and try to make it as good as possible, because at the end of the day we only have ourselves so, we should learn to be as comfortable as possible with our minds.

I am aware of how hard it is, I can assure that. But it is ok to feel sad sometimes, it is ok not to be in peace with our minds sometimes. But when that is the case, you should know what to do to make yourself feel better. Listen to music, watch a new TV series, buy something you have been wanting to buy for a long time, take a bath with lots of bubbles. Do anything that makes you feel good.

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I know some people who even if they know they are sad, they do nothing to feel better. This is another thing I learned the hard way, nobody will solve things for you, you must do it yourself. Nothing comes free to us, we must fight for it. Take your time if you need it, it is ok to take your time. I used to wait for people to make a change for me, but I refuse to think like that now, and I think it is one of the best things I have done in the past years.

The conclusion is, if you are aware of the fact that we are alone, try your best to be in peace with yourself. Be patient. Take your time and get to know yourself. That is really important, and luckily I think people recently is more aware of it than before, and that makes me really happy, as long as everyone doesn’t arrive to the extent where they get totally selfish lol.

Be in peace, pamper yourself, be nice and learn to enjoy your time alone and also the time you spend with other people. Don’t be so critical and enjoy life.