to be beautiful means to beyourself. you don't need to be accepted by others .you need just to accept yourself .
when you are born a lotus flower ,be a beautiful lotus flower ,don't try to be a magnolia flower . If you crave acceptance and recognition and try to change yourself to fit what other people want you to be you will suffer all your life .
True happiness and true power lie in understanding yourself ,accepting yourself, having confidence in yourself trust me ... you needn't to change .