HI! I haven't been anywhere near as active as I wish I was. For anyone who even cares about me, I am still alive haha. I have been busy with scholarship applications and my college classes.

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  • Started out as your friend! I have seen first hand what happens when people date someone who "slid into their DM's" I am not saying that there is no shot at love when that happens, but let me tell you, I have seen those go horribly wrong. Date a guy who you may have friend zoned. I know I know, crazy! But they are some of the best candidates and who knows! You may have friend zoned someone who has a thing for you. Or date the guy at work who you've known for a while. Or date the kid at school who you have seen in the hallways talking to people who you know are great people.
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  • Doesn't think he is better than anyone else. If a guy is too full of himself, chances are he has you around to look even better or "cooler" per say. If a guy can't stop talking about himself; he is not worth it. If he gives you no time to talk about your problems or what makes you happy; he is not worth it. And of course, the same goes for my girls out there! Be sure to keep conversations interesting for both of you and not just one of you.
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  • Tells you "I love you" every day. Even when you are having an argument and you don't feel like saying those words back; just do it. Don't let your relationship fall apart by making your partner believe you no longer reciprocate their feelings. Trust me on this one.
  • Texts you goodnight every night even if there was no time to text during the day. There may be days where you guys may not have had enough time to text because of several factors and to make up for it, he texts you goodnight to remind you that he still thought of you and still loves you

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  • Talks about you to his friends and family whenever you're not around. I have met so many guys both at work and school who say, "My girlfriend and I did this and that" and they are so happy talking about them! Definitely a great thing. Whenever I see their girlfriends around I make sure to tell them, "Your boyfriend never stops talking about you, yall are cute" Trust me; girls love hearing that their boyfriend talks about them to everyone (in good ways! If they talk bad about you I sure hope you dump the guy).
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  • Reminds you just how beautiful you are even though we all know we see ourselves as the ugliest human beings. Am I right? Date a guy who will see past those flaws you work yourself over and definitely date a guy who does nothing but compliment you and those flaws. Because lets admit it; we all have things we wish would go away: acne, scars, skin dryness or oiliness, blackheads, baby hairs, etc... (those are from my experience).

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  • Likes seeing you often and doesn't make excuses to not see you. If they are not trying to meet with you, it doesn't necessarily mean they are cheating on you, but maybe they're not as into you as they thought they were. Sometimes they don't mean to do this! It can just happen without him realizing you may not be the one. However, there could be more to their lame excuses sometimes so watch out!

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  • Likes some of the things you like. Yea Yea, I know what they say, "opposites attract" but if you don't drink or smoke, don't go out with the good looking guy who does nothing but get wasted and slips on his college or high school grades. Trust me, those are the guys who are far from being mature. If you are smart, go for the smart guy in class! If you are going for a business major, date a business man! Stuff like that.
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  • Puts in the effort. He may not buy you a 100 dollar gift every weekend, but he pays for your food without a complaint even though you beg him to allow you to pay.
  • Asks for your opinion on different topics
  • Asks you for help when he needs it
  • Treats you like a princess- But of course, every relationship has its problems. He cant be the only one treating you like a princess. You have to treat him just as great yourself.
  • JUST. HUGS. YOU. Yes, kissing is great. But sometimes all we need is a great 5 minute hug from our guy when we are feeling sad. Forcefully kissing you when you may not feel like it will just tear you guys up in the long run.
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Okay, those are just some I was able to come up with.
Have a great rest of your week and read my last article if you wish!

- Denisse