Are going through a lot in life no matter what timing:

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You had been given a challenge or two in life. A challenge—whom not everyone could cope up with. A difficult challenge that YOU yourself had gone through; either recently, a few days ago, a few months ago, or even years ago and it is haunting you... but, hearties, you survived up until this very second. And you can keep continuing to survive... even if it means to sacrifice your effort and time—even if it takes days, weeks, or even months to heal from your nightmares. You CAN survive and you WILL survive. The world revolves around challenges that every human being has to face; whether it's as easy as pie or it feels impossible to overcome. Every one of us have our own challenges... but, it is up to you to decide on how to fix it, how to overcome it, and how to find solutions to it.

If someone said something awful about you and you feel insecure:

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Do not let others' opinions about yourself get to you. It is none of their business to judge on how you look or how you wear your makeup. It's none of their business to judge your talent or your skills on creative things or new ideas. Their opinions will NOT matter because none of it will be involved in your life and they do not benefit you in any way possible... not even a tiny bit. They don't help support your life or pay your bills, do they? Even if they are related to you, their opinions about yourself is purely irrelevant if it's against you.

Push these negative opinions from others out of your mind and away from you! You must keep your heads up, stay confident, and tell them, "This is me. If you don't like me for who I am, then leave.". Tell them proudly! Never let negative people get into your thoughts to haunt you for the rest of your life. Never give them a single attention or clap back a single word because honey, you are amazing and beautiful just the way you are. You don't need to look like and be somebody else to impress someone or for yourself. If you think you're not perfect—hun, no one in this world is perfect including myself. We are made of flaws and imperfections to define our true beauty. People who loves you will find you beautiful and perfect in every way. What's the solution to this? Keep being YOURSELF and never QUIT on being YOU! Keep doing your thing, girls and boys!

"Be happy with being you. Love your flaws. Own your quirks. And know that you are just as perfect as anyone else, exactly as you are." —Ariana Grande

If you had lost a family member, a close friend, or even a pet:

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. I'm so sorry that this kind of situation had been involved and affected your everyday life. From the bottom of my heart, I'm really sorry. I hope somebody is there for you at your roughest time. Try reaching out to someone very close to you and explain to them what exactly is happening—from A to Z. You are not alone and if somebody truly cares, they will comfort you at your toughest time and will try to make you feel better no matter what.

You are going to get through this. I promise. You are stronger than you think you are. Remember, if we ever miss them, always keep in mind that they will constantly be inside our hearts. As long as you keep pushing forward and continue your life journey with or without them, you are doing amazing and I'm sure, they miss you too. If they are a family member or a close friend, they would be so proud of you. I hope things will be okay for you and I love you. Stay strong, hearties!

"If the people we love are gone from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them." —James O'Barr

If you are failing classes or failing other things in life no matter how hard you try. Then, you start to think that you are a failure:

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One word: patience. Patience is the key to every success. There is no success without being patient. There is no success without failures. There is no success without being positive about the situation. No matter how many times you fail, no matter how many times you try your best to succeed, no matter how many times you had fallen and picked yourself up exhaustively... NEVER give up. Please. I'm begging all of you to never give up.

Failure is the essential of life. Without it, we would not learn from our mistakes. It is important to acknowledge that failure exist in our life for many reasons, such as, they make us learn from our mistakes, they are here to teach us a lesson, they will make us try to avoid it and try an alternate way to fix it, and etc. You are more than that. You are doing amazing! You are NOT a failure! Many successful businesses in the world had gone through failures and complications, but they never once had given up. So, let me tell you straight-forwardly once again. Never, ever, ever give up! Keep pushing, stay positive, breathe in and out and try again hearties! Someday, who knows, you will succeed and you will look back in the past where you had failed—you smile widely because you made your way out of it, you stayed patient and you have succeeded! Good luck!

"Without pain, there would be no suffering. Without suffering, we would never learn from our mistakes. To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows, without it, there is no way of life." —Angelina Jolie

If you are dealing with anxiety and depression:

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I, myself, is a victim of anxiety and also depression. I struggled with it for four years up until today. But, I told myself that one day, all of this suffering will come to an end. All of it will be going to a full stop in the end. Pain is temporary, darlings. Pain is there to teach you what it's like to live, they teach you to be strong and they teach you how to survive. They make you braver and stronger—they make you unstoppable for what's coming next in your life. What I did to avoid being depressed is to occupy myself with something like; games, reading, writing, spending more of my time with my family or friends. Speaking of friends and family, always try to reach out to them and tell them that you are suffering from either anxiety or depression.

The only way to really cure depression is to reach out the ones you love and tell them how you feel. Communications with your loved ones is the priority. Like I said on my "losing your loved ones" passage, the one who truly loves and cares for you will try their best to make you feel contented and that you are never alone. Cutting yourself and suicide is not an option. It will never be an option because your loved ones need you here on this earth. Remember your loved ones, remember that life is worth living, and remember that everything you're going through is temporary. It takes time to heal, I understand. But, I promise you, when the time comes, it will be worth it in the end.

Pray to God for help. He will always listen and He watches everything you do. He gave you challenges in life because He loves you and He only wants what's best for you. He wants to see you become stronger. I am strong and I also need you to be strong beside me. We both and everyone else will survive this together. I love you all and I hope that someday, you will experience a life filled with endless smiles. You're worth everything. Stay positive and keep living your life, hearties.

"Hard times teach us the most valuable lessons. Be patient. Embrace life now that we are still living." —A Survivor

If you had recently experienced a break-up or your relationship with your lover is not working out:

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If somebody truly is and indeed loves you, they will not stop loving you. They will never leave you and they will never give up on you even at the hardest, most complicated times. They will love your imperfections and flaws and will stick with you until the end of time. They will not be interested in other girls or guys and will only focus on you. They will love you for who you are and not what you dreamed to be. If none of them do any of these things to you, he's not the one and it wasn't true love.

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. If the guy or girl dumped you for the dumbest reason, please don't be sad for her or him. He or she is stupid enough to leave you behind and my advice is to stop letting your thoughts of her or him get to you. Do not let people who have hurt you for so long constantly; ones who won't find solutions to the problems they create over and over again overcome your heart and soul. You're stronger than that. If they left you because they wanted what was best for you or for other good reasons, please acknowledge their reasons. Please try to understand where they're coming from because in the end, if you both support each other's decisions, it will be easier to move on and carry on with your lives.

If the guy or girl doesn't make any commitment for your relationship to make it better and improve, ignore and try to avoid them as much as possible. End the relationship before it can get worse and make you shatter into millions of pieces. If he is abusive, girl, why are you still with him? Stop what you're doing and run away from him! Distance yourself away from people who not only mentally hurt you but physically hurt you too, it's not healthy!

To those who are stuck in a toxic relationship, take your time to think on what's right and wrong. Think about the consequences, advantages, and disadvantages of ending a toxic relationship before actually ending it. If they are worth it, they will come back in your lives and content you—not destroy you. Dump the people who did not make effort to keep you, care for you, and be there in your life. Throw them away from your heart. They are simply not worth it. Life is simple if you make it simple.

Wipe your tears away and stand up, you are strong and you don't need a man or a woman who dumped you harshly to conquer your feelings because honey, there are more men and women out there who might as well be your soulmate and treat you so much better than he or she did. I hope you get through this and ask a close friend of yours if you need more assistance. Stay strong.

P.S If he or she wants you back after what they did to you (except if it was best for you) then flip or swipe your hair to the side and walk away, smile brightly and show them that you don't need them anymore. Don't give them a single attention because they have tossed away a valuable gem. They ain't worth it, sweetheart.

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That's all I have for today. This is my first article and I wanted it to be about helping somebody. All of what I had written above are my own words (except for the quotes) and I hope this has helped you in some way. My intentions were to make you all feel great! I love you and thanks for reading! Good luck in life!