12th February 2018

Hey guys! I know I haven't been active lately but I had an issue on We Heart It, and I feel like I should explain. So here goes, about a week ago my account was blocked and I wasn't sure why because I hadn't posted or hearted anything that was inappropriate.I had finally been able to figure out why and I've sorted the problem out. This article is based on my personal life and what happens to others in real life and on the internet. So today's article is going to be on how to deal with toxic people.

Feel free to skip to the tips as I'm going to explain my situation and I'm going to be rambling like an idiot.

I've always felt like I didn't belong, and it included my friend group as well as I had ended up not talking to some of them because of fights or because we don't go to the same school. But after year 9 was when I had gotten a group of friends who I truly love and feel like I belong. Before that I had met my current four friends, I had met this one girl who had been just like me and we had many similarities. From where we were born to, similar parents and things like that.

With her, I was able to tell her things that I hadn't open up about to anyone, not even my family. We had become best friends from the end of year 9 till now. She had been someone who had… I don't even know how to explain to her because all she wanted to do was fit in and when she was close to someone she would end up copying them and it’s just so different with her. I can't be myself around her anymore because she would end up doing the same and make it seem like she came up with it.

It gets annoying, but she still is my friend but she ends up witching her friends and puts up a front of having depression and a horrible family when she puts up snaps of her and her family having fun. Again I don't know if it's true but she only started acting like this a few months ago. She ends up using me in lessons when she has no one else and calls me when her other friends are busy. Yet she still believes that she hadn't done anything wrong.

I'm still am friends with her as she is someone who understands me but I've slowly distance myself from her. I know I'm being a hypocrite and still friends with someone who is ruining my life but this is the last year of us being super close as next year there will be more people and she had said that she will be trying to make new friends as her two best friends from the beginning had turned on her. Anyways let's get on with this articles sorry for the rambling but I hope you this helps.


Before we get started, make sure you are able to see who is affecting your life negatively and make a list of them.

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Having a clear and established distance between those people would lead to it making it easier on fully getting rid of them. I've gone from best friend to friends with certain people who are toxic.

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If these toxic people are your friends then slowly cut them off, don't make it obvious as most toxic people love to cause drama and I know this from first-hand experience.

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If these people are the ones in your year that you don't speak to then straight up ignore them because they don't know you well enough to talk about you and chat shit. If these people are online then block them or report them because again they do these things to make them feel good about themselves and feel superior when they are the complete opposite.

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Think about how what they say matter or if their existence is even important to you. Sounds harsh but if they themselves are not important to you then their existence is just a bunch of organ system put together and labeled human.

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If they are constantly irritating you and them saying things is making you feel bad about yourself or fell down then tell them. Talking about it will help. If you don't want to don't have the courage to tell them then explain it to someone else you trust and ho will be able to comfort and give better advice than me.

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That's it for today's article, I hope you enjoyed and I'm sorry for the long wait. I've had trouble getting it unlocked but ill make sure to upload at least every day. Message me if you have an article request or just want to be friends.

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