1. You feel accomplished. Being in a good healthy relationship is like getting accepted into an Ivy League school

2. You feel really special and secure, and you’re also promised a job {marriage} when you graduate.

3. Make up sex. It’s powerful and it’s vulnerable and it’s angry and it’s tender. It’s a cacophony of emotions and you can’t seem to get their body close enough to yours.

4. You can achieve the kind of happiness that only a lover can give you. You’ll be satisfied doing things that used to make you feel lonely.