Nowadays we are witnesses to a society with a lot of definitions about what beauty is, and how exactly we have to behave in public so we can be accepted. People are watching the TV, all the commercials, we are spending most of our time on internet following celebrities that are living the life of their dreams. All this is flooding the world with the ideal version of "perfection". We are used to see all the thin girls out here with perfect skin, perfect hair, outfits etc. We are completely focused on perfecting ourselves physically instead of working on our inner selves. That's the problem with the society, that's the reason why people are struggling from low self-esteem and are hurting themselves trying to get closer to this ideal.
It's easy to get lost in this whirlwind of beauty and ideals that we are "supposed" to fulfill. Let's not forget, we are all a little different, and that's a good thing.

The following reminders should't be considered a mark of imperfection, they should be a mark of living life; your life. THE ONLY PERSON THAT IS GOING TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD IS YOU, YOURSELF.

1. YOU ARE ONE IN 7 BILLION.

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It’s funny how YOU are a persona on your own. Someone said; you are born alone and you will die alone. That’s because we all are living a different life. Don’t forget that you are the only one with the exact DNA, your face, skin, body etc. You are who you are and NEVER CHANGE just because you are breaking the stereotypes or because you feel like you don’t belong here. To be different is to be ONE IN BILLIONS. There is a place for everyone in this world, we are born to live, no matter what. You owe no apology to anybody out here. LIVE your life because it’s the only one you got.

2. Look at all that cool stuff your body does.

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Instead of worrying about achieving perfection, we should be preoccupied with living life. Make your existence richer by reaching for the unusual, the things that you want so badly not the things that everyone is reaching for .
There is nothing more fascinating than the human body. It is capable of some amazing things. Each biological function that our body undergoes involves a combination of some of the most complex and outstanding molecular happenings. Even things that we take for granted, like our eyes, are like nothing else in nature. Not only are our bodies achieving feats that are hardly comprehensible, they can run, jump, swim, and withstand some harsh conditions. They allow us to laugh and cry, and experience the world through touch, smell, sight, and sound. Your body has withstood so many years of life, and it is constantly waiting for even more. If nothing else, we should be proud that we have the bodies that we have, because they are truly amazing vessels.

3. If you're happy, you're doing it right.
The media has us convinced that we can be truly happy if we are living the life of our dreams. It is not true, if something makes you happy, do it, if you want your hair messy wear it that way, if u want to wear make up every hour of the day do it, let no one stop you from living in your comfort zone. No one is capable of convincing you that what you’re doing is wrong. It's your life and you have the right to live it as you want because at the end of the day, you are who you are and there is nobody to save you, it’s you doing it as good as u can.