If you are a girl who just got dumped by her jerk of a boyfriend, then this is all the advice you need.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO WIN HIM BACK, GIRL!

If he left you in the first place, knowing how much it will hurt you, then he already doesn't deserve you. You need to be a strong, independent girl who doesn't need to run and beg after guys to stay. Show him that you are doing just great without him. Trust me, that kills men. It kills them to see that women do fine without men. Stick with your girlfriends. They are the ones who will keep you grounded with good advice and support you no matter what.

Let go of all that bullshit. You don't deserve to feel so much pain. Don't give him that kind of power over you.

You can be so much stronger than this. Rise again. He'll never what hit him. And when he wants you back, you can tell him to shove it up his ass and walk off.