Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/She is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?

Well technically I don't have a best friend- I have what I would call my closest friend, but not a best one. I don't know, I guess I'm just not meant to have one * shrugs. * I'll just go along with the question though!

If my best friend were to tell me that she was in love with me, I would be really confused honestly! We're both two straight females so I'd probably be super shocked and wondering if she was joking, haha!  I do like to take people's feelings into consideration, however so I'd probably ask her if she was sure and if so, I'd just let her down gently. I know myself and I know what I am/am not attracted to so I'd just have to let her know straight-up that I think we should just remain friends and not complicate it with anything else.

If she stated that she was falling in love with me or in love with me, I would still just have to let her know that her feelings were not reciprocated, but we could still remain friends if she understood that that's all we'll ever be. I would, however be happy to help her find someone who could feel for her in that way! Just because one person turns you down doesn't mean that everyone else will.

So yeah, that's the way I would handle it! Until next time!  

Lots of love,
-C