It’s bound to hurt. It’s bound to feel uncomfortable ,unnatural and scary. Parting with someone who was basically 90% of your life, maybe even more, isn’t an easy task. This is change, something that all humans are afraid of. We can’t protect ourselves against change, it’s difficult to survive when we don’t know what we’re up against. But it isn’t impossible. Before your ex, there is YOU. You can survive ,but you will hurt, that’s natural. This pain you’re feeling, comes when you make the transition from one path of life to another. Maybe this loss is so much harder ,because they had promised to stay, they had promised forever. Maybe you’re furious because they aren’t who they said they were. Maybe they left without consideration of how you would feel. But at the end of the day they only did what was best for them. Maybe there weren’t happy with you. Maybe you weren’t as compatible after all, maybe you weren’t the one they envisioned to spend the rest of their life with. Maybe they left in search for happiness that they weren’t getting with you. Don’t they deserve that? Happiness in this life? I mean if you truly love them, wouldn’t you want them to be happy? It’s difficult to think of the well-being of someone after they’ve torn your heart out and trampled on it, but they left. Don’t blame yourself, don’t decrease yourself worth . Maybe you didn’t fit into their puzzle after all ,who knows.
Breakups aren’t easy, they take time, But you can survive. Life goes on…
Written by:Mrkeynotes