What you physically wear does not matter. You can wear a dress and heels, jeans and a jumper with trainers. You can have your hair up in a messy bun or down perfectly curled. What you wear does not matter. What you wear does not define who you are. It's what you wear on the inside. Your heart, your brain. You could wear pjs eveyrwhere but have a beautiful kind heart, or you could wear a Versace skin tight dress with Jimmy Choo high heels and a YSL bag but have a horrible, selfish, unkind heart. You could wear fake glasses but still make stupid brainless suggestions. What you wear is not all that matters. Not on the outside anyway. What you wear and show on the inside is what matters. You could wear makeup and make an effort before going out, or you could go out with your spotty, red face, your hair messy and wearing sweatpants and a baggy jumper with Old trainers. Because that shows that you're comfortable with yourself and have self love for yourself and your skin. You wear yourself. 100% of who you are. You don't cover yourself up with makeup. If you wear yourself on the inside and express that on the outside, by being comfortable with just being you and wearing you then that's what matters. Not clothes. Clothes are not what matter. It's who you are on the inside. Not the outside.

No matter what people tell you, we all are weak. There is nothing wrong with being weak, no matter how strong or tough or pretty we all have a weak side. Some people can't do math, some people can't carry heavy things. No matter what it is, even the smallest insecurity adds up to our weaknesses. People consider weakness a struggle so bad, they fear it. Fearing and staying away from weaknesses, insecurities and struggles only makes it worse. You are letting yourself be consumed by them. It is only when you are brave enough to face them you can overcome them.

You never know what's around the corner. It could be everything or it could be nothing. You keep putting one foot in front of the other and then one day you look back and you've climbed a mountain.

You are responsible for your own choices. Choose to live by choice not by chance. Choose to be motivated not manipulated. Choose to be useful, not used. Choose to make changes, not excuses. Choose to excel, not compete. Choose self-esteem, not self-pity. Choose your inner voice, not the random opinions of others. The choice is yours. Just make the right one.

Thank you for listening