I worked with a woman from a fundamental christian church. Twenty two years and they were certain that the bible was God's living instruction manual. The husband worked for years in many areas of the ministry. The couple expected the husband to be asked to the ministry. When a ministry position became available the church gave the position to someone else . The couple realised they had expectations that were unlikely to be fulfilled and left. They then joined a more mainstream church. I had been asked to comfort a friend so we visited this couple and shared a meal. The friend joined the new church. When this church wanted my friend and I to become a couple she left the church and burned my relationship with my friends and the church. Their love to the church and I was conditional. I should have realised earlier when both parties turned their noses up upon meeting some disabled friends.