when we are having real problems in our lives we think "why can't i be happy?" But the thing is that we choose if we want to be happy or not, i know it sounds weird but it's true because we choose if we want to drown in our problems or we want to try to carry on with our lives, this is why i said is our choice, your choice.

the life can be really hard but we can't stop us because of the problems, they aren't forever neither is life so do what gives you peace don't stay there letting your problems consume you.

go out to the mall, to a restaurant, watch movies, listen to music, try something new or do whatever that makes you happy because the life is for make memories.