• Yes, He Is Flirting
  • He likes being around you and treats you differently than he treats other people. He’s clearly flirting with you. You don’t need to worry about it, because this guy is interested. It might not always be super, glaringly obvious if a guy is flirting with you, so that could be why you don’t realize it right now.
  • You should enjoy this, because it’s amazing and exciting to have this kind of chemistry with someone. See how things go, have fun and don’t over-think it. If you over-think it, you might actually make his flirting go away.
  • Why? Because even if a man is super into you, if you obsess over it and over-analyze the situation, you lose your “seductiveness.” But on the other hand, if you are carefree and truly able to “let go” and enjoy the moment, you will make him more and more likely to want to keep flirting with you.
  • There is nothing more attractive than a happy, carefree woman who is genuinely comfortable with herself.
  • Listen, I am being honest with you: there is nothing more unattractive than a woman who is fixating on whether a guy is flirting with you or not. Which means what? It means that by fixating and trying to analyze whether or not he is flirting, you're making him less likely to be flirting.
  • The good news is that there is a simple fix. Drop this mindset and adopt the mindset where you do not worry, fixate or try to "figure him out."
  • Instead, truly relax and enjoy the present moment with him. Be comfortable, happy and actually let go of your internal fears and anxiety.
  • Be able to smile. There is nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who is truly happy.
  • When you are able to be truly happy, you will find that a lot more men will flirt with you (even more than now). Manage your mood and make it a point to enjoy life.
  • I promise you. Men want to be around a woman who feels good to be around. Being able to laugh in the moment and engage with life in a way you love is irresistible to men.
  • And another thing to realize: the best way to be happy and get the best results in your dating life is to focus on the people who naturally like what you are about and do not give an ounce of focus to those who don’t.
  • In order words, do not think about the guys who are not flirting with you who you wish would flirt with you. This can possibly hurt your self-esteem and make you question whether it is something wrong with you that makes the specific guy (or guys) you want to flirt with you not flirt. No. This is not true in any way, shape or form.
  • The best thing you can do for yourself is focus on the people who naturally gravitate toward you. You will be in a better mood. This better mood will in turn attract more people.
  • Now, when a man desires you so intensely his heart races every time he thinks of you, you don't have to wish, wonder, or second guess yourself

with all my love
Ines