It feel so mandatory to be in a relationship. If you're not in a relationship, people automatically assume that you're not happy or that there's a specific reason that you're single. People act like it's impossible to grow up without a nigga. "I can't wait to be married with a child at 25" Shouldn't you be fresh out of college looking for a job? Females be so focused on falling in love with their high school sweetheart that by time they graduate high school they don't know what they want to major in or what specific colleges they want to go to. They know how they'll make it work to go see their nigga every Saturday , tho. Females won't know self love , but will be looking to love someone else and that's so dangerous. I need ya'll to leave these relationships alone because 95% of the time, these niggas don't have no goals and the only thing they plan on doing once after high school is being posted on the block 25/8. Relationships not gonna help you eat, or build towards your goals once your mama stop rooting for you, so I need ya'll to do better and put that relationship shit on the back burner until you on the path of where you want to be.