"Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong."

Let me start from the beginning

As you can already see, I am writing about life- something that I don't really understand yet. And it has brought me here. I started using WHI 3-4 years ago, maybe more. I had been inactive for quite a long time, but a few weeks ago I RETURNEEED! And I was introduced to this whole new "article" thingy. I should say that I have never written before, except homework for my English classes. And yet again, here I am, probably blabbing and boring you out. But I should inform you that I HAD NO IDEA what I was going to write about... It just happened.

All the small changes

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I'm on the hunt for who I've not yet become

Every small alteration you make to your lifestyle could have a huge impact on you and the people around you. Doesn't matter if it is the time you go to bed, the coffee you drink or the food you eat, everything matters. Those little bits of pieces may change your mood, which may result in you being more kind to other human beings. This may help them go through a rough day and put a smile on their faces. And we all know that smiles are contagious.

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” -Jalaluddin Rumi

The real ones that keep us going

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Let me tell you, changes can be brutal sometimes. We all go through them, but they make life interesting. The difference between what has been and what is yet to be, keeps the butterflies in your stomach fluttering. It keeps the adrenaline running in your veins, making you fight. For example, I have lost some of my most precious people, but instead of grieving I have decided to live my life to the fullest for them. It is hard, life is hard, but it is so beautiful. Remember: the scarier, the better! Which brings me to my last topic:

The necessary ones

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We grow, our mindset becomes completely different, we see things from a different perspective. And this is good. This is what has driven humans to develop and evolve. For instance, if you are surrounded by toxic people, you should get rid of them, no matter how close they are to you. People easily get used to things, you, like everyone else on this planet, can get through tough times alone. Yes, it is difficult, but you can. Don't settle for less. If you don't feel comfortable in this group- leave.There is something better waiting for you. So go to the university you want, work what you want, move to the city you want, BE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE. Make the necessary changes, no matter how hard they are. Get rid of the people bringing you down and learn to love yourself.

Don't try to change the world, find something that you love
And do it every day
Do that for the rest of your life
And eventually, the world will change.

This article turned out to be a lot longer than expected... Sorry for the messy topics, but I hope you enjoyed it.