Getting over someone is hard. It's hard when you constantly think about them, wondering if they miss you like you miss them. Do they regret like you do? Do they want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to them? 

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Listening to a song that they used to play all the time when you guys were together. It feels as though every little thing reminds you of them. How do you get over someone when everything around you resonates with various memories? 

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Dig really deeply into your mind, and ask yourself why you're still harboring feelings for the person. Tell yourself why you shouldn't be. There's a reason for everything that happens. If you need to, talk to people close to you. Talking it out can help a lot more than you'd expect. Harboring the pain is much worse. 

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But the most important thing you can do is focus on yourself. Focus on who you are. Find a hobby, a passion. Find yourself. Keep yourself happy, because the person who is responsible for your happiness is you.


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