Hi.
This is my first article, and it's kinda serious, but this is something I always wanted to write about, and WHI Articles is kind of a great platform to do this.

I am not a scientist, I am certainly not a professional, and I did not study gender. I'm just a young human who is lost in the spectrum of sexuality, and who is trying to found out something.

I wanted to talk about what gender means to me, because I think it's something that we, the new generation, are very concern about, but that other generations don't really talk about.

I don't understand why people make dramas about gender. And it's maybe because I still kinda am a child inside, but I think things are simple.

You are who you wanna be.

If you wanna be a boy, that's right.
If you wanna be a girl, that's right.
If you wanna be trans, that's right.
If you wanna be non-binary, that's right.
If you wanna be sometimes a girl, sometimes a boy, that's right.
If you wanna be both girl and boy, that's right.
If you wanna be neither, that's right.
If you wanna be in the middle of it, that's right.
And, fuck, if you're lost, that's right to.

People do not have the right to tell you which gender you gotta be.

I don't believe in god, but I don't believe in science either. Why would I believe in something that often tells that there are only two genders ?

It's your life, and it belongs to you, and only you, to choose how you want to live it.

You don't have to look a certain way to be a boy, a girl, or anything else. You don't have to prove that your gender is real and that you really belong to it. Your genitals do not define your gender.

You are beautiful the way you are, and you don't need to fit in a stupid category, and you don't need to be defined by a certain term.

Love, always.

C. xoxo