There comes a point in life when you reach a stop. For some it's divorce or never amounting to your dreams, for others, it's heartbreak, so on and so forth. After this stop, you reevaluate the road you have decided to take. You look back, broken, but hopefully with the determination to go forward stronger than ever. This decision accompanies self-reliance and confidence, you no longer need to seek approval from those who have managed to put you down. You do an outrageous thing, put on a gold blouse, and feel as if you have just started a brand new life.