Writing an article is something very weird for me, so sorry for many mistakes to come, but I just wanna talk about my two best friends or basically just best friends in general.

"Picking a best friend who stands up for what she believes in, is true to herself and allows you to be yourself without judgement of how 'cool' you are? Well, now you're picking a friend for life." - Renee Olstead

We all have at least one very close friend, they could be the person you tell your deepest darkest secrets to, or the person you do stupid things with, basically anyone who just accepts you for who you are and doesn't complain.

My life has consisted of many "best friends", but we have either lost contact or we've had a falling out, and to be honest it hurts, it hurts a lot to lose someone who you thought you'd grow up with. But life isn't as fair as we want it to be, but the two best friends I have now are the friends who have stuck with me through thick and thin, we've all helped each other. From being depressed when drunk or helping each other through a heartbreak. To be honest the three of us haven't been friends for that long, at one stage we never knew each other, or we hated each other. But as we have gotten older we've gotten closer and closer and then boom we have given each other the title of best friends.

The best thing about having best friends or even friends, is that we're all different, friend one is the unexpected quiet bitch, friend two is the loud and out going one and I'm the brutally honest loud bitch aha. I guess we're all honest when it comes to different things. Friend two and I are the over protective ones, friend one & two are the make up fanatics, friend one and I are the ones who can bitch for hours on end. We all have different things in common which is a wonderful thing, because being all the same is the most boring thing ever. Another wonderful thing is that judgement doesn't exist between us, I personally have a very weird taste in clothes, my style is all over the place, it goes from goth to boho to some random outfit I just chuck together. But to them it doesn't matter. You need people like that in your life, the moment they judge you for something you wear, what you look like or for something you do, then get rid of them because they'll just bring you down.

Everyone deserves to be happy with themselves, it doesn't matter what you look like or how you act or anything. If they accept you for who you are then keep them in your life, if not say 'bye bye' because you deserve better. My mum has brought me up to be strong and independent, but for some people its hard. I know that because my best friends both struggle with self confidence about themselves and I do too, we all do and thats life. But they are beautiful in every way, people just don't understand that we're all unique and "perfect" in our own ways. We may be the same species but we are all made up of different genes and DNA, thats something that we can't control. We all need to achieve the goal of looking at ourselves in the mirror and thinking 'Hot damn, I look so f*cking amazing/perfect'. It doesn't matter if we aren't perfect in societies eyes we need to be perfect in our own eyes and that is all that matters.

Sorry got a bit off track. But after all this ranting, I'm just tryna say that best friends don't care if you have a fat pimple on your nose, if you have a weird body shape, or a weird taste in music. If your best friend accepts you for who you are then lets just say you've got a great best friend. You're all beautiful in your own unique ways and it doesn't matter what anyones says. If anyone has something rude to say about what you look like or who you are, you can either ignore them or tell them to shove it, because their negativity isn't need ever.
I'm sorry if I have offended anyone but this is me telling the whole wide world my thoughts.