A fairly common social issue people have is that they're not sure how to make friends and put together a social life for themselves.

if you've moved to a new city and don't know very many people yet
or your old friends have slowly been dropping out of the picture (moving away, busy with work or a new family, etc.) and haven't been replaced by new ones
you never really knew how to make friends and have always wished their social lives were better ,_then read the article to the end and hope you get the benefit from them _
but first you have to know that there are three types of friends ,you should decide which type you truly want to :
1)“Hi-Bye” friends:These are the ones you see at school/work because the context calls for it. You say hi when you see each other and you say bye at the end of the day.
2)Regular friends: Social, activity buddies you meet up every now and then to catch up or hang out with. You can generally talk about regular topics under the sun.
3)truly (soul)friends: People you can talk anything and everything with. You may or may not meet up every day, but it doesn’t matter as the strength of your friendship is not determined by how frequently you meet up — it’s more than that. These are the friends you can trust to be there for you whenever you need them, and they will go the extra mile for you.

here is my 5 tips to make new friends
1) Realize your fear is in your head
The first step is to develop a healthy mental image of meeting new people. Some of us see meeting new people as a scary event. We are concerned about making a good impression, whether the other person will like us, how to keep the conversation going, and so on,Actually, all these fears are just in our head. If you think about it, 99% of people are too busy being concerned about these very things themselves to pay attention to you. While you’re worried about the impression you make, they are worried about the impression they will make. Truth be told, they are just as scared as you are.
2) Start small with people you know
Get to know your friends’ friends. You can join them in their outings or just ask your friend to introduce you to them. If you are comfortable with your friends, there’s a good chance you will be comfortable with their friends too,Accept invitations to go out. I have friends who rarely go out. When asked out, they reject majority of the invites because they rather stay at home. As a result, their social circles are limited. If you want to have more friends, you have to step out of your comfort zone and go out more often. You can’t make more friends in real life if you stay at home!
3) Take the first step
Once you are out there with people around you, someone has to make the first move. If the other party doesn’t initiate a talk, take the first step to say hello. Get to know each other a little better! Share something about yourself, and then give the other party a chance to share about him/her. Something easy, like asking how the day is, or what they did today / in the past week is a great conversation starter.
4) Be open
Be open-minded. Don’t judge,On the same note, open your heart to the person. This connection between you and the other party can only begin when your heart is open.
5) Get to know the person
A friendship is about both you and the other person. Get to know the person as an individual. Here are some questions to consider:

What does he/she do?
What are his/her hobbies?
What has he/she been up to recently?
What are his/her upcoming priorities/goals?
What does he/she value the most?
What are his/her values?
What motivates/drives him/her?
What are his/her passions in life? Goals? Dreams?

so i ended my tips ,I've moved to a new city so i know the feeling of how to make new friends so i read about that much and asked about it and it really helped me ,so i decided to share it with you guys to help you too,but the most important thing is just to be yourself and be with people that you feel comfortable with them
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