At my 17 years old I started to realize a lot better how important it is to learn how to love yourself and to know your worth, specially in now days.

When I was a little younger I was a super insecure girl. I remember going trough my Instagram TL and seeing all these gorgeous tall girls with their perfect bodies, beautiful hair, perfect skin, and I had all these stuff going trough my head like "Oh my God I have to be like this" "I have to look like that" "My body needs to be like hers" And I was too focused thinking about all these negative things and bringing myself down over and over again that I forgot about the self love, and my worth as a human being.

So today, beautiful people, i'm going to be sharing with you some of my advises and tips that helped me to start loving myself and to know my value ♡

Stop bringing you down ✦

It's so important for you to STOP bringing you down, you know why? because its not worth it! I know is easy, specially while growing up, to find things about yourself that you don't really like, or you don't feel comfortable with. But that's okay, because that's something that happens to EVERYONE, believe me. For example, I used to hate my hair so much because its very wavy and one of my friends literally died to have her hair like mine, because hers was too "straight". So everyone has characteristics about themselves that they don't like and the best thing you can do is to own it and learn to love it.

No one is you ✦

You are unique! Yes, just like that. This girl may have this, or that other girl may have that but THEY DON'T HAVE WHAT YOU HAVE, they are just not you, and you have no idea how special that makes you, because there is always something special in each and everyone of us that makes us who we are and you have to be confident about that. So please remember, at the end of the day, no one is you and that is your super power, use it wisely.

Be kind to yourself ✦

My mom always told me that others will treat you the way you treat yourself. For example if you don't respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you? Is as simple as that, so if you want to be treated right you need to start by treating yourself right. But I'm not only talking about the physicals, I'm also talking about your insides. I once read that you are going to talk to yourself more than anyone in your life, and that is so true! You have no idea how powerful your thoughts are, and how a simple world can change your whole mood. Learn to compliment yourself every morning you look in the mirror, tell yourself how pretty you look in that shirt or how pretty you look with your hair styled that way. Just do it! And your day will change dramatically.

Make yourself proud ✦

Do everything for yourself and not to please others. This is your life, you have to live it for yourself. Do the things you love, set goals and work your butt off to accomplish them and I guaranteed you that ten years from now your future self will thank you for that. At the end of your life you are the only one that is gonna be there, and you have in your hands right now the power of making yourself proud.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this and I hope it helped you!
Kisses M ♛
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